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In the book The Office Oracle Wisdom at Work, author Patricia Monaghan wrote that we have
two kinds of energies. The horse energy is “ strong and sturdy…productive,
uncomplicated, grounded, thorough. It is also ordinary. “
The unicorn energy on the other hand is “creative and
elusive; it inspires us with new ideas, new visions, new enthusiasms. It is
complex, challenging, beautiful. It is extraordinary and infrequent. “ She also
said that we must train ourselves “to recognize unicorn moments and to follow
them instantly, for they do not recur.“
The horse and the
unicorn is a very simple paradigm but it is one of the most powerful
metaphors I have ever come across. It leads to a quick but deep
self-evaluation.
While Ms. Monaghan said that unicorn moments come and go, I
think we can make it stay. It starts with a decision to be a unicorn.
Believe that we’re a unicorn and we will be inspired to see
things differently, to think different and to do things that make a difference
in the office. We may not necessarily become a genius overnight. But we can
have that voice in our head constantly reminding us to make our output unique, special and excellent.
That voice will compel us to study more, learn from other
people, look for more opportunities to shine and go the extra mile.
The unicorn mile is different from a horse mile. The horse
mile can be physically and mentally punishing. The unicorn mile is full of fun,
a sense of fulfillment and the urge to create more special things.
To know if we are becoming a unicorn, we may ask ourselves the “do you matter questions” ( from
the book Do You Matter? by Robert
Brunner and Stewart Emery with Russ Hall. )
Two of the questions are “ Are you a positive force in their
lives ? If you disappeared, will their lives be diminished in some way ? “
If we resigned tomorrow, will our boss be a bit worried
about the department ? Will our officemates think some things will not be
the same for a while ?
Every person has unique qualities and abilities that’s why I
believe that we all have the potential to stand out from the herd.
There was a time in my career when I was feeling low because
I thought I was not doing anything special in the industry that I just joined.
Then one night our Chairman told me “ just do what you think you should do. Your
work truly reveals the soul of our company.”
Those words from my boss were like a unicorn. Magical.
If you have concerns about your job or if you wish to
suggest a topic, you may email me at rglabayen@gmail.com
I would assume that you’re giving me permission to
publish your email ( if chosen) and my reply. Your identity will not be
disclosed.
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